I know what you mean. Nobody else (with the exception of like, Hurley and Claire) knew that Desmond was having the visions in the first place. He's going to have a lot to answer for when he does tell everyone but i'm still going to feel awful for him. Wouldn't it be awesome if Des fought back? When everyone is saying that he should have saved him blah blah etc. he turns around and says something like "well none of you tried to save him either!" and goes into a rant about how they didn't ever respect Charlie enough and he was braver than all the rest of them put together.